In week three of our series Christians Behaving Badly, we turn our attention to a powerful and uncomfortable example titled “The Church Bully.” In this series, we take an honest look at the messy, sometimes shocking behavior of people in Scripture who should have known better. From Diotrephes’ prideful control to King Asa’s stubborn independence, from the hypocrisy of Ananias and Sapphira to the petty conflict of Euodia and Syntyche, each story reveals how damaging unhealthy attitudes can be inside the church. These aren’t just ancient stories—they reflect struggles we still face today. Through each message, we confront issues like pride, division, dishonesty, and conflict while discovering practical, biblical ways to respond differently—pointing us ultimately to Jesus, our perfect example.
In “The Church Bully,” we examine Diotrephes in 3 John 9–10, a man who loved being first more than serving others. His pride turned ministry into a platform for self-promotion, pushed people away, and created division in the church. This message challenges us to recognize how pride can quietly distort our motives, turning partners into competitors and fueling gossip that tears down what God is trying to build.
But there is a better way. Through the words of Jesus in Mark 10:43–45, we are reminded that true greatness is found in humility and service. Jesus didn’t climb to the top—He stooped to serve, lifting others, washing feet, and ultimately giving His life.
This sermon invites us to ask a hard question: Is there any Diotrephes in me? Because pride kills ministry—but humility builds it.
